" commensurable "

 [ "Commensurate" ]

1: corresponding in size or degree; in proportion

  * e.g.,  ... The fact that our task is exactly commensurate with our life gives it the appearance of being infinite. 

 [ "Commensurate" ]

1: corresponding in size and/or proportion

  * e.g.,  ... "In the eight years since Mr. Stark announced himself as Iron Man, the number of known enhanced persons has grown exponentially. And during the same period, the number of potentially world-ending events has risen at a commensurate rate." 

 [ "Nothing you are doing is commensurate with anything I said" ]

1: You're not winning a conflict against me. You're not doing my strategy by doing this to me. To the extent that people ARE doing it they are thriving and surviving. But this is not that. You are trying to add parameters to my situation that do need to be there and you have no right to impose. Because I framed whether or not your kids were murdered by the weaponized schizophrenia as a game that we either both win or we both lose and WE FUCKING LOST because of you and NOT ME. Or broke even at least. I mean, I need the 3rd party verification to do any more than I did and all you did was tell people that I was lying for attention.

  * e.g.,  ... Hym "Nothing you are doing is commensurate with anything I said. This isn't whatever the hell you are trying to call it and it is, in fact, the thing I said it was."